Breaking up is hard to do…especially when it’s not your choice.
April 4, 2011
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Hi. I’m Marla. Gimme a Minute. I want to talk to you about getting over a broken heart. Especially if you’ve been dumped.
You know what I’m talking about. Everyone has been dumped at least once. It’s horrible. I know.
But I also know it gets better.
There are two things you will need. One, is time. Not the answer you wanted, but it’s true. As far as I know, no one has died from a broken heart.
But there is another valuable tool that will help, and you can make it yourself. Actually, that’s the only way it works. You have to make it yourself.
It’s the list. The A to Z list. Seriously.
When you’re the dumpee, it’s the best way to recover from lingering depression and protect yourself from future hurt. Make a list from A to Z of all the attributes you want from a romantic partner.
Did the dumper have any or all of those qualities? Considering this person dumped you, that’s hardly possible. And if you find your A to Z list does describe the dumper to a T, change some items on the list. Anyone who filled that bill would never do that to you.
This list can be revised at any time, especially as you recover your personal power. Keep this list in a safe place. Look at it whenever you miss the dumper.
Realize you deserve someone who has those A-Z characteristics.
You and that person will find each other. I just know it. I’m Marla. Thanks for listening. See ya.